Waaldain ka Ehtsaab

Overview:

“Walidain Ka Ehtisaab” is a significant work by Professor Dr. Fazl Elahi that sheds light on the responsibilities of parents and the rights of their children. In light of the Quran and Sunnah, the book emphasizes that parents are accountable for their children's upbringing, education, and moral development. Dr. Fazl Elahi stresses that it is the duty of parents to provide both religious and worldly education, to avoid favoritism among children, and to protect them from sins. If parents fail in these duties, they will be questioned on the Day of Judgment. Citing numerous Hadiths and Quranic verses, the book discusses how the parents stand answerable for the acts of their kids. This book serves as a guide for all parents who wish to raise their children in accordance with Islamic teachings for success in both this world and the Hereafter.

Key Features:

1. Emphasis on Parental Accountability
   The book highlights that parents are responsible for their children’s rights. The Qur’an says:
   "O you who believe! Save yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is men and stones" (Surah At-Tahrim: 6)
   Scholars interpret this verse as a call for parents to educate their children in religion and righteousness.

2. Protection of Children's Rights
   Parents must provide education, love, and equal treatment to their children. The Prophet ﷺ said:
   "Be just among your children, as you would like them to be just with you" (Sunan Abu Dawood: 3542)
   The book strongly condemns discrimination between children and explains its consequences in the Hereafter.

3. The Honor of Daughters
   Special attention is given to the virtues of daughters. The Prophet ﷺ said:
   "Whoever has a daughter and does not bury her alive, does not insult her, and does not favor his sons over her, Allah will admit him into Paradise." (Musnad Ahmad: 1957)
   The book encourages parents to love and raise their daughters with dignity and care.

4. Importance of Good Company
   Parents must monitor their children's friends and environment. The Prophet ﷺ said:
   "A man follows the religion of his friend; so each one should consider whom he makes his friend." (Sunan Abu Dawood: 4833)
   The book guides parents to ensure their children are surrounded by righteous company.

5. Accountability on the Day of Judgment
   The book warns parents that if they neglect their responsibilities, they will be held accountable on the Day of Judgment. The Prophet ﷺ said:
   "All of you are guardians and responsible for your wards and the things under your care." (Sahih Bukhari: 893)
   This hadith highlights the serious responsibility parents have over their children's actions.

6. Simple and Authentic Content
   The book is written in an easy-to-understand language, supported by authentic references from the Qur’an and Hadith, making it accessible and practical for every parent.

7. Practical Guidance
   It offers actionable advice on how to monitor children, teach them religious values, and develop their character so they grow into righteous and obedient individuals.